Angela Deem, a prominent figure from the reality TV series 90 Day Fiancé, is notorious for her dramatic on-screen antics, which continue even off-camera. First introduced in the second season of Before the 90 Days back in 2018, Angela’s relationship with Michael Ilesanmi from Nigeria sparked discussions far and wide. Despite a significant age difference—Angela being nearly two decades older—she quickly decided to tie the knot with him, showcasing a strong desire for a younger partner while Michael sought to relocate to the U.S.
Throughout their tumultuous relationship, Angela has often been in the spotlight for her aggressive behavior, eliciting sympathy for Michael from fans. Relishing the attention, Angela has escalated her outrageous antics with every new spin-off of the franchise. Despite intense criticism from viewers online, she has remained unapologetic about her actions. Recently, rumors emerged suggesting that Angela may have been let go from the show after she divulged details about Michael’s status in the U.S., claiming he was “missing.”
10 Angela’s Confrontation with a Flight Attendant
Angela’s Need for Control
In July 2022, a shocking video circulated among fans where Angela was seen yelling at a flight attendant. Claiming she only reacts angrily when provoked by Michael, Angela confronted the staff member in a manner that left spectators stunned. A passenger documented the exchange, which featured Angela admonishing the flight attendant, asserting, “You’re not law enforcement.” Her unmistakable blonde ponytail and distinctive voice made it clear to fans that it was indeed her.
As she became increasingly agitated, her speech was slurred, rendering parts of her tirade incomprehensible. Angela insisted the airline staff should, “get who you need to get,” alleging they had been disrespectful to her. The clip concluded with Angela looking for Michael, asking, “Do you see my bud anywhere?” to a companion nearby.
9 Angela Overshares with Fans in NYC
Seeking Validation from Fans
In August 2024, a fan encountered Angela at the Erie County Fair in Hamburg, New York, and shared a snapshot that showcased her planting a kiss on their cheek. The encounter drew attention on social media, where a blogger noted Angela’s “desperate” demeanor, indicating she was the one eager to interact with admirers.
During this encounter, Angela opened up about her feelings of isolation, stating, “No one has my back and I’m really hurt, that’s why I come across so angry.” She also expressed discontent over her declining social media following, attributing it to the backlash post-split from Michael, and urged fans to support her online. Remarkably, Angela attended the fair with the intention of meeting Vanilla Ice, and later flew to Canada for another fan engagement event.
8 Angela’s Fallout with Former Best Friend JoJo
A Friend in Need
Angela’s complicated relationship with her ex-best friend JoJo came into focus, especially after she struggled to marry Michael in Nigeria due to K-1 visa issues. JoJo had initially supported Angela during her surgeries and decisions regarding Michael. However, tensions flared when JoJo became closer to Debbie Johnson, causing Angela to lash out due to jealousy.
7 Angela’s Physical Altercation with Jennifer Dilandro
Violence Between Friends
In August 2023, a disturbing incident occurred when Angela was filmed getting involved in a physical fight with her friend, Jennifer. The altercation took place at a hotel after a disagreement escalated during a cab ride. Video evidence depicted Angela towering over Jennifer, who pleaded for Angela to stop pulling her hair.
6 Angela’s Online Feud with Usman ‘Sojaboy’ Umar
Accusations Fly
Angela’s intense rivalry with Usman Umar began during a 2021 episode of 90 Day Bares All. She accused him of scamming her friend Lisa, claiming his actions reflected poorly on Nigerians. This animosity led to a heated exchange where Usman retaliated by labeling Angela a “pig.” When Michael started an Instagram account against Angela’s wishes, she lashed out at Usman, labeling him an opportunist.
The clashes culminated in accusations that Angela had essentially trapped Michael in their relationship. During the Happily Ever After? season 7 Tell All, Angela didn’t hesitate to label Usman as a “piece of s**t,” exacerbating their public feud.
5 Angela’s Social Media Attack on Kimberley & Jamal Menzies
Fractured Relationships
Angela’s distrust of her ex-partner Michael extended to his social media interactions. After he rejoined Instagram post-separation, Angela monitored the situation closely, erupting in anger when Kimberley Menzies followed him. She labeled Kimberley a “two-faced b****” and insisted that she had no genuine connection with Michael.
4 Angela’s Instagram Clash with Jasmine Pineda
Guarding Michael’s Interests
Following her split from Michael, Angela’s animosity shifted toward Jasmine Pineda. Rumors of a budding romance between Jasmine and Michael surfaced after Jasmine posted a selfie with him. Angela, unable to contain her jealousy, commented on the photo to insinuate they were more than friends. However, both Jasmine and Michael dismissed these speculations as mere friendship.
3 Angela & Scott Wern’s Playful Dynamics
Spirited Relations?
After Michael’s absence became apparent, Angela struck up a friendship with Scott Wern, leading fans to speculate about a potential romantic link. A video of the two goofing around at a bar, with Angela jumping into Scott’s arms, fueled these rumors as Scott playfully dubbed their video “Dirty Dancing.” Despite fans’ assumptions, Scott later referred to Angela as like a sister.
2 Angela’s Celebrity Connections
Networking with Celebrities
Despite her reputation as a franchise villain, Angela has managed to garner a significant following and even celebrity friends. Notably, she has a connection with Nick Hogan, son of wrestling icon Hulk Hogan. Angela has occasionally expressed her admiration for Hulk, proving that even reality TV personalities can make intriguing friendships in high places.
1 Angela’s Move for Annulment
Dissolution of Ties
In June 2024, Angela took a significant step by filing for an annulment, aiming to officially terminate her marriage with Michael. She accused him of deceiving her into marriage to secure his U.S. residency, claiming he was part of a larger scheme involving Nigerian men who defraud American citizens. Angela’s court filings also include a request to revert to her maiden name, Deem.
90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days continues to air on Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC, keeping audiences engaged with its blend of drama and intrigue.
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