
The Golden Bachelorette star Joan Vassos recently marked her 63rd birthday alongside Chock Chapple in New York City, but her family was conspicuously absent from the festivities. Joan gained public attention as a contestant on the inaugural season of The Golden Bachelor, where she developed a strong connection with Gerry Turner, 72. Unfortunately, Joan, who works as a private school administrator and is a mother of four, had to exit the show prematurely due to a family emergency. However, this setback paved the way for her remarkable journey as the first female lead in The Golden Bachelorette.
A Combined Family: Joan & Chock’s Six Children
Meet Erica, Allison, Nicholas, Luke, Taylor & Tyler

In the first episode of The Golden Bachelorette, Joan was introduced to 24 eligible men, including 60-year-old Chock, an accomplished insurance executive and father of two from Kansas. Following a season filled with romantic adventures, Joan and Chock joyfully became engaged, embarking on their next chapter together. Despite their happiness, the couple has encountered some troubling family dynamics, as evidenced by the recent absence of Joan’s children during her birthday celebration in NYC, raising concerns about family rifts.
Joan and Chock together share six children; Joan has four adult children from her previous marriage to John Vassos, who passed away in 2021 after 32 years together, and Chock has two children, Taylor and Tyler, from his first marriage. Joan’s children, all adults now and some with children of their own, have expressed their close bond with their mother, emphasizing the importance of her children’s acceptance of Chock.
During a notable moment on the show, some of Joan’s children traveled to Bora Bora to meet Chock. In a candid conversation, they voiced concerns that Chock might try to replace their late father. Chock alleviated their worries by expressing his intent to honor John’s memory and take care of Joan, not to replace him.
Navigating Family Dynamics: Joan & Chock’s Challenges
“A Little Harder Right Now”

Following their engagement during the season finale, Joan and Chock committed to navigating the complexities of their blended families. Their first hint at family tensions surfaced when they acknowledged the challenges of uniting their relatives. In a recent Instagram post, Joan candidly remarked that merging their families has been “a little harder right now, ”indicating there are unresolved issues they are working to overcome.
Further complicating matters, Joan celebrated her birthday with two separate gatherings — one in Maryland with her children and grandchildren, where she jokingly blew out a “29”candle, and another in New York City with Chock. Notably, her family was absent from the New York celebration, which possibly highlights ongoing familial challenges.
This separation during such a personal occasion raises questions about the stability of Joan and Chock’s relationship, as they strive to blend their families successfully. While their efforts for family unity have seen some success during holidays, they still face hurdles in achieving the envisioned happy, modern family dynamic.
Profile of Joan & Chock
Joan Vassos |
62 years old |
185K Instagram followers |
4 Children, 3 Grandchildren |
Chock Chapple |
60 years old |
78K Instagram followers |
2 Children |
For fans eager to catch up on Joan’s love story, The Golden Bachelorette season 1 is available for streaming on Hulu.
Sources: Joan Vassos Instagram, Joan Vassos Instagram, Chock Chapple Instagram
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