
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days has introduced fans to captivating characters, and one standout from Season 7 is Niles Valentine. For those intrigued by his life—specifically his age, profession, and background—here’s a closer look at this reality TV star. Niles embarked on his unique journey in 2024, traveling to Ghana to meet his girlfriend, Matilda, for the first time, after proposing to her during a video call just a few months prior. Though Matilda accepted his proposal and excitedly began planning their wedding, she was unaware that Niles had other intentions for his trip.
Niles didn’t initially plan to marry Matilda in Ghana; instead, he aimed to get engaged during his visit and then return. However, Matilda’s desire for a traditional relationship and her concerns about Niles potentially not returning added pressure to their situation. This feeling may have been intensified by Niles’ parents expressing doubts about Matilda’s intentions, believing she could be a scammer. As the season progressed, Niles and Matilda became officially married, but their happily ever after was still on hold due to Matilda’s visa status. Niles anticipated Matilda would join him within five months, but by the reunion episodes, that timeline had greatly extended.
Niles Valentine’s Age
Understanding Niles Valentine’s Age



In terms of age dynamics, Niles and Matilda share a relatively modest age gap compared to many couples featured on the show. Their initial connection blossomed through social media, with Matilda taking the initiative to message Niles on Facebook Messenger. Interestingly, it was February 15 when she reached out, possibly indicating she had searched for “Valentine”on Facebook for fun, displaying her boldness at just 20 years old.
Contrasting her assertiveness, Niles was more reserved and initially skeptical about Matilda’s authenticity. Despite having previously dated, he struggled to believe in true romance due to past experiences where intimacy overshadowed deeper connections. At the time of filming Season 7, Niles was 27 years old.
Niles Valentine’s Employment
Niles Valentine’s Professional Background

According to his LinkedIn profile, Niles had a career as an Information Technology and Independent Living Specialist at the Center for Independent Living of Mobile from November 2022 until June 2024. This workplace was featured prominently during his reality show interview in episode 4, where he was referred to as a “Peer Advocate.” His rapport with colleagues was evident, as they often expressed concern for him, to which he cheerfully replied, “I’m still here for the most part.”
Sadly, just before his journey to Ghana, Niles was let go from his job, which led to financial constraints. To fund his trip and contribute to wedding expenses, he took up part-time work as a delivery driver. Despite his limited savings, he concealed his job situation from Matilda, only managing $109 in his bank account at one point. Eventually, he sought assistance from Mr. Arc, the village elder, to cover the bride price during the wedding ceremony.
During the Tell All events, Niles shared that upon returning to the U. S., he secured new employment with the state’s Mental Health Department, where he was appointed the Director of Self-Advocacy starting September 2024 (as reported by InTouch).The filming for the Tell All took place in October 2024, marking Niles’s return to the workforce after approximately 10 months of unemployment, and he aimed to save $4000 for Matilda’s spousal visa.
Niles Valentine’s Social Media Presence
Niles Valentine on Instagram
Distinct from many of his fellow cast members, Niles appears to be less focused on leveraging social media for fame or financial gain. While platforms such as Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube often serve as lucrative revenue streams for reality stars, Niles has yet to explore these opportunities. He maintained a modest Instagram presence, previously featuring just one post—an awkward selfie from August 2024. Most recently, he made headlines by announcing he hasn’t initiated a GoFundMe to support Matilda’s move to America.
90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.
Sources: InTouch, Niles Valentine/LinkedIn, Niles Valentine/Instagram
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