Kody Brown’s Parenting Struggles in Sister Wives: Why His Older Kids May Never View Him as a Father

Kody Brown, the patriarch of *Sister Wives*, has openly discussed his decision to parent later in life, effectively missing crucial opportunities with his older children. He is under the impression that his younger kids will see him as a dedicated father figure, but the reality is starkly different. Throughout Season 19 of *Sister Wives*, it has become evident that Kody has a skewed perception of his parental relationships. Instead of taking responsibility for his past shortcomings, he seems to be portraying himself as a hero in his children’s lives.

Kody’s Notion of a “Second Chance”with His Younger Kids

A Misguided Second Chance

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Kody admits that during his earlier parenting years, he felt overwhelmed by his expanding family, particularly with Janelle and Christine. This overwhelming feeling led to his increasing absence as a father. Although he acknowledges feeling overwhelmed, he has yet to express any regret for the fractured relationships he established during those formative years with his older children.

His dynamics shifted noticeably when Robyn joined the family. With his two youngest children, both from Robyn, Kody expressed a sense of having a “second chance”at fatherhood. However, he fails to recognize that this is more a reflection of his past neglect rather than an actual opportunity at redemption. His so-called second chance distills into an implication that he could have always chosen to be a more responsive and caring parent—something he didn’t do for selfish reasons with his older children.

Kody’s Disregard for His Older Kids’ Views

A Lack of Respect

During Season 19, it becomes clear that Kody’s relationship with his older children is strained. While some, like Mykelti Padron, still interact with him, most of Kody’s older kids have distanced themselves. Kody seems perplexed by their choice to disengage, perceiving their actions through a harsh lens rather than introspection. His assumption is that their decisions are influenced by their mothers disparaging him, showing a lack of respect for his children’s autonomy and feelings.

Kody’s Sense of Entitlement to His Older Kids’ Love

The Misconception of Unconditional Love

Ultimately, Kody Brown operates under the misguided belief that his older children owe him unconditional love. Reality paints a different picture; the affection he desires is not inherent and must be earned through genuine connection and care. His negligence and lack of attention during pivotal moments in their lives have created a divide that cannot simply be bridged by his current attempts at involvement. The love he expects is conditional, and without prior affection shown to his older kids, he cannot demand it now.

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