While tattoos inspired by movies or TV shows often face disapproval, I find that perspective perplexing. Having over 20 tattoos that reflect my passion for fictional universes and music, I admit I may not be the best judge in this context.
Throughout my tattoo journey, I have found it deeply rewarding to evaluate what truly resonates with me enough to merit a tattoo. My admiration for director Christopher Nolan was already etched on my wrist in the form of a birdcage from The Prestige. Yet, as I explored Nolan’s broader body of work, it became clear that one tribute was insufficient for my favorite filmmaker.
The catalyst for my next Nolan-inspired tattoo was the IMAX re-release of Interstellar. My choice became evident: I wanted to have the Morse code representing the word “Stay.”In the film, young Murphy, played by Mackenzie Foy, discovers that the dust pattern in her room conveys a hidden message, a haunting warning urging her father, Cooper (Matthew McConaughey), to remain with her.
Despite this plea, Cooper embarks on a mission that severs his ties to his family for decades. The emotional reunion only occurs when Murphy is at the end of her life, yet Cooper witnesses the profound impact of his actions on society. This narrative resonates deeply with me as someone who has experienced the loss of a father. The wish for my own dad to have “stayed” thus inspired my decision to commemorate Interstellar with a tattoo.
The Importance of Artistic Expression
Many people dismiss tattoos, but for me, they represent a powerful medium of self-expression. Tattoos allow me to showcase my passions through body art. I am fortunate to collaborate with a gifted artist, Kreg Franco of East Side Ink, who transforms my ideas into stunning visuals. Often, a simple text from me saying “I want this” results in incredible designs that capture my essence.
With my Interstellar tattoo, the focus shifted from aesthetics to the underlying significance. Grieving the loss of a loved one is a profound struggle. I always had a lingering fear of losing my father, so films like this serve as poignant reminders of my love for him. I have a close relationship with both parents—my mother is my closest confidante—but my bond with my dad, who cherished the same films as I did, was uniquely special.
It wasn’t until after his passing that I finally watched Interstellar. I had been in college when it first premiered and missed the theatrical release. Discovering this film post-loss, I yearned for some hidden significance that could bridge my connection with him. I envisioned my dad as the protective “ghost, ” watching over me. In moments of profound sadness, I find solace in Murphy’s heartfelt plea for her father to “stay.”
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