
Spy X Family has recently captivated its audience with unexpected revelations about its central antagonist, Donovan Desmond. For a long time, Donovan’s motivations and powers remained shrouded in mystery, but chapter #110 has begun to peel back layers regarding the dynamics within the Desmond family.
The Depth of Donovan’s Neglect: Impact on the Family
Not Just Absent in Damian’s Life: A Family Affected


In the early chapters of Spy X Family, Donovan is depicted as an enigmatic figure, seldom appearing in public discussions aside from school-related events. Interactions with Loid soon reveal his neglectful parenting, particularly towards his son, Damian. He consistently overlooks Damian’s achievements, instead favoring his elder son, Demetrius. This discrepancy in attention has fostered a sense of bitterness in Damian, who often resorts to bullying as an outlet for his resentment.
Recent fan insights from @rosefortwilight and @Rou_uoR highlight that Donovan’s neglect extends beyond Damian, instilling a pervasive atmosphere of tension throughout the entire Desmond household. While Damian’s struggle for parental approval is evident, this neglect has ramifications for his mother, Melinda, and brother, Demetrius. Collectively, they are embroiled in a familial struggle marked by emotional distance and resentment toward Donovan.
Melinda and Demetrius: Victims of Donovan’s Transformation
Melinda’s Distress and Demetrius’ Silence

During a pivotal conversation in chapter #110 between Melinda and Loid, alarming truths about Donovan’s mind-reading abilities emerge. Melinda expresses her deep concerns regarding her husband’s drastic behavioral shift, even suggesting that he might have been replaced by an alien. This unsettling notion, while extreme, underscores the severity of the changes Donovan has undergone. She hesitates to refer to Donovan as her husband, feeling the man she married is utterly changed.
Intriguingly, Melinda reminisces about a time before Damian’s birth when Donovan was nurturing and attentive. This shift in Donovan’s demeanor after the arrival of their youngest son highlights the emotional isolation that the family now endures. In a poignant depiction, Demetrius appears lost in thought, attempting to suppress any feelings or ideas for fear of Donovan’s judgment—a clear representation of the internal struggles faced by the Desmond children.
The Threat Beyond Loid: Donovan’s Family Destruction
From Unity to Fear: The Desmonds’ Transformation

The atmosphere within the Desmond household is now steeped in fear, with Melinda and Demetrius grieving the loss of the husband and father they once knew. A particularly haunting scene illustrates the family’s dinner, where only Donovan seems at ease, while Melinda, Damian, and Demetrius wear expressions filled with anxiety and confusion as they face a father who feels like a stranger. Donovan’s penetrating gaze leaves a distinctive mark, as he seems to scrutinize their thoughts and intentions.
With Donovan’s ability to read minds now revealed, Loid must navigate the escalating tension while keeping his own plans under wraps. Yet, the true victims of Donovan’s increasingly erratic behavior are his family members, who bear the brunt of his transformation. His warped personality dynamics create barriers that prevent the Desmond family from regaining their former unity and happiness.
For further insights, refer to fan discussions and analyses from @roseforttwilight (1) (2) and @Rou_uoR on X.
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