Avoid Discussing a Deceased Father Unless You’ve Experienced the Loss Yourself

Recent allegations against Justin Baldoni made by Blake Lively have raised eyebrows, with claims that are deeply disturbing. One of the most shocking assertions is Baldoni’s alleged statement claiming he could communicate with the deceased, specifically mentioning Lively’s late father.

The lawsuit details that Baldoni “engaged in other behaviors that were shocking and emotionally distressing.” This included instances where he purportedly revealed he could speak to Lively’s deceased father, which the lawsuit described as “off putting and violative.” Such claims, suggesting a personal connection with a recently departed loved one, are profoundly troubling.

The grief of losing a father is an indescribable pain. Lively experienced this loss when her father, Ernie Lively, passed away in 2021. For many, including myself, this heartache lingers long after the initial loss. The timing of filming *It Ends With Us*, which began less than two years after her father’s passing, likely intensified her emotions during this difficult period.

While the other allegations against Baldoni may be more severe, the specific claim about communicating with a deceased parent is haunting. Such a behavior reflects an alarming level of insensitivity. Dealing with the loss of a close parent is challenging enough without someone asserting that they have a “relationship” with them in an inappropriate manner.

It may sound trivial, but such claims are deeply traumatizing. Picture someone already making your professional life stressful, then adding the bizarre assertion that they can speak to your deceased father. It’s not only strange but also profoundly hurtful, particularly for individuals who share similar experiences of loss.

What Not to Do When Someone Loses a Parent

Often, individuals struggle to find the right words for those grieving the loss of a parent. Common responses tend to be simply offering condolences. It’s similar to how I wear a bracelet that reads “dead dad club” ; I don’t seek pity regarding my loss. At first, I thought general sympathy was the least helpful response, until I came across Baldoni’s actions.

I empathize with Blake Lively. Whether these claims are true or not, the mere implication that Baldoni mentioned her father demonstrates a lack of understanding and compassion. His alleged statements have left a repulsive impression, highlighting troubling aspects of his character. The unsettling texts he sent to his PR team further amplify these concerns.

There is simply no acceptable scenario in which someone asserts they can “communicate” with a deceased loved one. Even joking about it would be considered offensive to many. The fact that Baldoni allegedly made such serious claims is revolting. Consequently, if there’s ever been an example of how NOT to behave towards someone grieving the loss of a parent, this scenario serves as a glaring lesson.

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