
The recent episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days, specifically the Tell All Part 3, shed some light on Adnan Abdelfattah, allowing him to shed the villain persona he had cultivated throughout previous reunions. Adnan, a 23-year-old from Jordan, moved to the United States after tying the knot with his 41-year-old wife, Tigerlily. His controlling tendencies towards Tigerlily, such as insisting she remain covered during activities like swimming and discouraging her from seeing male healthcare providers, raised eyebrows. Despite Tigerlily asserting her independence, her adherence to Adnan’s rules painted a stark picture of their dynamic.
While viewers expected Adnan’s strict demeanor to be limited to his marriage, they were caught off guard when he displayed similar behavior towards his co-stars. During the Tell All, Adnan took on a self-righteous attitude, critiquing the choices of fellow cast members. His remarks, which carried a hint of bullying towards individuals like autistic participant Niles Valentine and quadriplegic man Brian Muniz, led him to appear as if he were leading the discussion rather than participating in it. Adnan’s lack of shame over his actions and Tigerlily’s failure to intervene only amplified the situation.
Niles Gave Adnan A Disturbing Threat
Niles’s Concerning Remarks About Adnan

During a particularly tense exchange, Niles Valentine expressed his frustration with Adnan’s interruptions while discussing his relationship with Matilda. Niles left the set momentarily to regain his composure, but tensions escalated further when Adnan attempted to mockingly provoke him by saying, “It was not nice to meet you.”This encounter resulted in a confrontation where Niles approached Adnan, seemingly ready to strike, until producers stepped in to diffuse the situation. Niles later remarked that Adnan had taken him to an uncomfortable place.
“I’m never going to think about him again, ” Niles told Vanja Grbic.
In a subsequent interview, Niles elaborated on his feelings towards Adnan, labeling him in derogatory terms and ominously suggesting that if Adnan were to speak carelessly to a Texan as he had to him, there would be severe consequences. Niles’s unsettling comments showcased a troubling side to the cast dynamics, further emphasizing the importance of respect and boundaries.
Adnan Called Out Josko for Mistreating Vanja
Adnan Assumed a Protective Stance for Vanja
During the Tell All, Josko Luketin discussed his tumultuous relationship with Vanja, including the intimate moments they shared prior to their breakup. However, Josko’s crude remarks about their intimate encounters led to visible embarrassment for Vanja. Notably, she revealed that Josko had filmed their private moments without her consent, adding another layer of betrayal to the situation.
“All of us are sorry, Vanja.”
Adnan, observing Vanja’s distress, took it upon himself to defend her, apologizing on behalf of the cast. The revelation that Vanja had met up with Josko despite their split, culminating in a makeout session, complicated matters further. When Josko was challenged about his actions, Adnan rebutted with, “What respect? You take a video of her in secret and now talking about respect?” showcasing a protective side that offered a counter-narrative to his earlier behavior.
Adnan Was Spooked Out By Rory’s Invisible Dog
Adnan Brought Humor to the Reunion

In addition to displaying a protective side towards Vanja, Adnan also injected some levity into the Tell All episode. Rory, who had transitioned from Vanja’s ex-boyfriend to her best friend, joined via video call. An unexpected moment occurred when the door behind Rory mysteriously swung open, prompting Adnan to exclaim, “Your door is open!” His innocent panic succeeded in bringing laughter to the set, showing that beneath the drama, there was room for light-heartedness.
90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days airs every Sunday at 8 p.m. EST on TLC, promising viewers a mix of emotions ranging from tension to humor as the cast navigates their complex relationships.
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